Guideline for wear short skirt/dress.

This is just for sharing. Not meant to create any conflict. 
So the other day, I had a debate with my female colleague regarding the length of a skirt or dress. How it started was due to my other colleague's outfits. Let's name her Sam, and the one who debated with me, YH, a mother of 2 daughters. 

 
So, that day, Sam was wearing this Milky coloured Shift dress that looked neat and cute for her, but I wouldn't say it was too short for her as it could still cover up to her mid-thigh. Just that, she couldn't raise her hand up to fetch something. She was only 160 to 165cm. 

So during lunch, YH, Sam, me and another female colleague went out to the nearest coffee shop to pack our food, and I am seriously not sure why, but YH was kind of very into Sam's clothing. Stating that it looks nice but too short and she can easily upskirt from that. An excellent example of clothing that shouldn't be worn to work.

At the start, I was still teasing YH, thinking she was just envious and jealous of Sam's figure, but that YH brought it to the next level. She claimed that nowadays, ladies don't protect themselves as much as in the old time. She claimed that her daughter also loved wearing skimpy clothing, showing a lot of skin, like trying to seduce the guys. 

I was slightly triggered, and in the defence, I told her that girls are like that since we still have those nice figures, so why not show out to the real world? It was more to the clothing we were sharing but not our skin. If not, wait until old age, then show??? Sam and my other colleague knew I was aiming at YH, but I was retaliated again. She brought out the statistics on girls being raped due to their clothing and how " Open-minded" nowadays young girls are, causing the guys to have those lewd thoughts and many more. In the end, I gave up talking to her, which ended in an awkward moment when we were on the way back. 

So guys, please allow me to share some information,

Signs that your skirt is too short

• Some random person compliments your panties or warns you or stares at your bottom
• If your mini becomes a wide belt when you sit down.
• If you can feel an unsettling breeze on your bum.
• A crowd forms behind you as you ascend the subway staircase.
• You find yourself constantly tugging at the hem of your skirt.
• You drop your pen in the hallway at work and realise you have no way of retrieving it without flashing.
• You meet a friend for lunch, and she knows without asking that you just got a bikini wax.

How to move gracefully in a skirt without upskirting

• If you wear a skirt with light material, make sure you don’t run or walk too fast. Because it might cause the edge of your skirt to go up and reveal your panty. Other than that, you will be fine if you keep yourself in a standing position.

• The most challenging part for women wearing a skirt is sitting. It’s basically the only moment your panties’ altitude would be lower than the edge of the skirt. Other people keep saying to cross your legs while sitting, which is really important, but there are some exceptions.

• If you prefer to wear a mid-thigh length skirt like me, and you prefer a stiff material skirt like denim, when you cross legs, keep in mind that your hand stays in front of the gap between your legs and skirt. This triangular space will let people at your front see your lovely panty.

• You have to keep your legs together and your feet flat on the floor. Put your purse or handbag on your lap while you’re sitting. Put your hand on the front of your skirt and press it into your legs while getting up from sitting. When entering your vehicle, you will need to sit first and then swivel your body, bringing both legs into the car simultaneously. Reverse that for exiting your vehicle. No high top tables or tall stools. You can wear a micro mini skirt with no panties and not show anything if you do this.

• Other minor situations are not that important. Just take years for us to practice. Make sure to check yourself in front of a mirror before leaving your house, and you will be fine.

Bring home a Message ( Unless you are planning for something naughty, like me )
Avoid sitting to as much extent as you can.
Cross your legs if your skirt is tight as well.
Keep a pillow or cushion on your lap (if there is one).
Try carrying a relatively more oversized purse while wearing short skirts so that you can use it to cover your laps.
You have the option of wearing stockings or dark coloured pantyhose.
Do not forget to wear tights underneath the skirt to avoid embarrassing situations.
Don’t attempt wearing short and frilly skirts on windy days, as wind will make it run even higher.